My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory. For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, “You sit here in a good place,” while you say to the poor man, “You stand over there,” or, “Sit down at my feet,” have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts? (James 2:1-4)
I am not prejudice! I love everyone! I treat everyone the same! Do you? Do I?
When you or I make statements that make fun of or belittle a group because of the color of their skin, we know that is prejudice. When we draw political lines to keep a certain element out of our school zones or our voting district, we should know that that is prejudice. Yet, there is more. There are other ways we show our prejudice. You may even not be aware of your prejudices until they are pointed out. I challenge you to take a deep look and see if you might be guilty. I know I am and this post is a way for me to not only confess, but make myself accountable for my actions and words.
Is My Prejudice Showing?
- When I make fun of a group because of their hair color, my prejudice is showing.
- When we push people away or disregard them because of their family or family history, our prejudice is showing.
- When we tell ethnic jokes or anecdotes that belittle a certain ethnicity, our prejudice is showing.
- When we belittle a community, town, county, or state we are lumping all who live or lived there into a prejudged category and our prejudice is showing.
- When I ignore the prejudice of others or worse support it, my prejudice is showing.
When my prejudice is showing, my Christian light is not.
When we show prejudice we are injuring others. Sometimes, I have excused my behavior as “just joking” or that I am “just picking at” someone and don’t really mean it. No matter what I believe about my motives, my words can be injurious. I am forgetting the Apostle Paul’s admonition, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” (Eph 4:29). How am I building up when I am putting down? “For out of the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers these things ought not to be so.” (Jas 3:10). How can we expect to bring others to Christ, if we continually injure them with our words?
I have some self-reflection to do. I see room for improvement. Will you take this journey with me?
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Very good. Sad to say, but I have run into prejudice because I am divorced. They don’t seem to care that i have a valid, Bible based reason for divorce. Prejudice is still prejudice whether it is color of skin, intelligence, homeland or divorce. Thanks so much for all of your good thoughts. I look forward to them and have save many of them.
I suspect that is one that many face. Reading this I also thought of people who decide not to marry and remain single for life. There is a lot of prejudice in this world.
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One of my favorites. I never realized how little progress our world has made in this area until my granddaughter was born. She is biracial. While many people saw her beauty, just as many grown adults stared and whispered like first graders. I’ll admit I had to do some attitude adjustment myself when presented with the news. However, it didn’t take long to realize how much everyone is the same. My daddy learned many lessons in his old age, as did I. He was transformed by her. I was transformed by her. Her other family became my family. I thank God for her every single day.
Maya is a beautiful young lady inside and out.