How do you use prayer? Do you use prayer as an avenue for you or as a way to talk to God? Before you answer think about
these “uses” of prayer.
We disUSE prayer when we are:
- Not praying for national, state, local, and Church leaders.
- Not praying for strength for the Body of Christ
- Not praying for spiritual growth in ourselves and in the Church.
- Not praying.
- In Acts 13:1-3 we read of the early church’s reliance on God through prayer, “Now there were in the church at Antioch prophets and teachers, Barnabas, Simeon who was called Niger, Lucius of Cyrene, Manaen a lifelong friend of Herod the tetrarch, and Saul. While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” Then after fasting and praying they laid their hands on them and sent them off.”
We misUSE prayer when we see it as:
- A tool for manipulation. Like the misbehaving child who’s parents sent him to his room to pray about his misbehavior. He came back later and was still acting up. When asked if he prayed about his behavior, he said, “Yes, I prayed you would be more patient with me.” Sometimes we pray aloud with the intent of our words changing those that hear us pray and not a sincere prayer to God.
- As a substitute for preparation / work. Someone said, “As long as there are tests in school there will be prayer in school.” Prayer-peration is not a substitute for preparation. Prayer is inviting God to walk and work along-side us and to do for us what we cannot do for ourselves, not what we are unwilling to do for ourselves. Maybe that is what James is warning about in Jas 2:15-17, “If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.” Don’t just pray that someone’s needs are taken care of if you are not willing to act to relieve those needs. Prayer is communication with the Father.
We abUSE prayer when
- We make demands of God. To hear television preachers tell people to pray in a way that demands God act concerns me. God is sovereign, I am not. God knows what is best for me, I do not. I ask for God’s blessing, I do not demand it. Again James speaks to this, “Instead you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.” (Jas 4:15).
- We pray to “look good” or pious. Jesus said, “And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. “And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words.” (Mat 6:5-7).
How do you use prayer? Use it to open your life to God letting Him know your struggles, needs, and desires. Trust that He will work what is TRULY best for you.