In 2006, as I was completing a Masters’ Degree in Ministry, our instructor (Paul Tarrence) assigned us at simple project; to reflect on the Man we Desired to be.  I wrote this list then and keep in under the glass on the desk in my study.  I use it to reflect on how I am becoming that man. I humbly admit I am still a work in progress.

1. Above all a servant of God.
   

   In my study at Central

2. A man who is a leader in service to others.
3. A man focused on the needs (physical, emotional, and spiritual) of his family.
4. A person with the financial security to be generous in giving to the Lord and in helping others with their needs.
5. A fried to all I meet.
6. A man of God’s Word in reflection and action.
7. A man motivated by a pure heart.
8. A man of ever deepening faith and trust in God.
9. A living testimony of Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-Control.
10. A man Christ-like in attitude and behavior.
11. A teacher of teachers and a disciple of Christ discipling others to reconciliation with God through Christ (2 Tim 2:2; 2 Cor 5:18ff).
12. A man aware of and sensitive to the thoughts and emotions of others, yet not allowing the values or misunderstandings of others to change my core-values that have their basis upon and in the principles of God’s Word.